Women V/s Women
Having the right circle of women around is honestly the biggest upgrade.
Instead of having the actual backing of our gender, which is "WOMEN," we are frequently seen demanding or looking for other gender or legislation to empower us.
It is an even greater sort of betrayal when women fail to support one another than when males do. When we suppress our insecurities, it might result in hostility against other people. Antagonism is rarely directed in a healthy or good way.
Many of the women I watch avoid talking to one another because they think that doing so will eventually lift the veil because "the more they would share things, the more other women will be ahead of them." Yet sharing by women can be advantageous whether it involves money or anything else.
"Thought exchange and sharing among women will be beneficial for all of us."
A friend is someone we can admire, appreciate, cherish, and learn from if she is competent enough to compete with us.
I attended the All-Girls School for my first stage of education and finished in the fifth grade. I experienced severe bullying there, which left me traumatized for years. Although I don't have anything specifically against the concept of an "All Girls' School," I do firmly believe what I have learned.
Theory of Female Competitiveness:
Competitiveness can lead to self-improvement. Occasionally, women will engage in passive-aggressive behaviors like sarcasm or poisonous positivity. Acting in ways that assist others rather than their personal growth and using jealousy as a tool to manage your life.
Men tend to lack the shrewdness or discernment that women do. Women are more inclined to judge one another harshly based on their appearance, clothing, makeup, behavior, etc.
Women are more inclined to criticize you in public. statements like "her thighs are so big" and "oh! What a terrible dress she is wearing". Unintentionally, there is more internal strife among women. the negative side effects of other women being more successful.
They adhere to the belief that "we want our fellow women to succeed as long as it is not better than us."
Social Media- The Root:
Reduce your scrolling time. Spending so much time on Facebook, Instagram, and other social networking sites slowly erodes your soul, or at the very least, your self-esteem. And it frequently makes you feel more competitive with the other women you spend so much time admiring on social media platforms. Women who don't feel happy with their life despite seeing how successful, stylish, and perfect other women's lives appear to be on social media. We lose appreciation for and grow more unsatisfied with our bodies when we only see the perfect images and not the paired and authentic images.
Move away. Do it for your own benefit and the benefit of all women as a whole. Consider it a form of emotional hygiene. "Reduce the amount of time you spend comparing". We devote a lot of time, in my opinion, to comparing ourselves to what we see on social media. Simply said, comparing oneself to others is deadly. It will bring you down.According to researchers,Those who are more socially competent and suffer from low self-esteem are less mentally healthy because they are more prone to psychologically harm themselves.
I wish more women understood that encouraging, praying for, and sharing resources with other women did 'Not' deprive them of the rewards that are due to them. In actuality, you receive more when you give more. Women's empowerment comes from selflessness, not selfishness.
Women must compel one another to start celebrating both themselves and other people. There is space for all of us, not just one, contrary to the so-called erroneous old conditioning that goes around. Women try not to gloat; as a result, we talk a lot about ourselves to avoid being arrogant. Yet, when women start praising one another, it open doors for others to follow suit and causes a ripple effect.
"There is always someone better than you."Whatever you do for a job, there's a good chance you'll come across an instance where you're not as talented as the person next to you. When that happens, having competitors can change your situation for the better.
How often have you heard men or your brothers remark things like, "You saw Him? His tuxedo was so terrible,", "His eyelashes were not that curly today," or "oh! He is behaving infantile to gain the undivided attention of "more Women""? seems absurd, right? But do Women who make such remarks to one another find them amusing in the same way?
instead of encouraging them to achieve everything they can and supporting them?
You may have heard that there is always a male (or vice versa) behind every successful woman. Yet, there are other women (of any age or relationship) who didn't put her down, disparage her, or make snap judgments about her.
'WOMEN SUPPORTING WOMEN'
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